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Youth sports college recruiting — the honest version

An end-to-end guide for parents and athletes who want the truth about the timeline, the measurables that matter, the financial reality, and the platforms worth paying for. Free. No email required.

Updated September 2026 · 7 sections

In this guide

The honest recruiting timeline by grade When colleges can actually contact you, what to do in each grade, and the 3 sports that recruit earlier than everyone else.
What measurables actually matter, by sport The 2–3 numbers college coaches filter on before they ever open your film. Sport by sport.
How recruiting calendars work — dead periods, contact windows, and exceptions Quiet periods, dead periods, contact periods, evaluation periods. What each one means and which one applies to you right now.
The financial reality of athletic scholarships Most are partial. Some sports are headcount, most are equivalency. What "full ride" actually means and which sports have them.
How to evaluate recruiting platforms What to look for, what to ignore, and side-by-side comparisons of every major platform.
State-by-state recruiting environments How HSAA rules, transfer policies, and recruiting density differ across all 50 states.
When a recruiting service is worth it (and when DIY wins) A decision framework. Most families do not need NCSA. Some do. Here is how to know.

1. The honest recruiting timeline by grade

When colleges can actually contact you, what to do in each grade, and the 3 sports that recruit earlier than everyone else.

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2. What measurables actually matter, by sport

The 2–3 numbers college coaches filter on before they ever open your film. Sport by sport.

Sport-by-sport measurables

Baseball Softball Volleyball Soccer Basketball Lacrosse Football Wrestling Track & Field Swimming Ice Hockey Tennis Golf Field Hockey Gymnastics Cheerleading

3. How recruiting calendars work — dead periods, contact windows, and exceptions

Quiet periods, dead periods, contact periods, evaluation periods. What each one means and which one applies to you right now.

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4. The financial reality of athletic scholarships

Most are partial. Some sports are headcount, most are equivalency. What "full ride" actually means and which sports have them.

5. How to evaluate recruiting platforms

What to look for, what to ignore, and side-by-side comparisons of every major platform.

Compared to alternatives

Lightning vs Hudl Lightning vs GameChanger Lightning vs TeamSnap Lightning vs SportsEngine Lightning vs FieldLevel Lightning vs NCSA Athlete Recruiting Lightning vs SportsRecruits Lightning vs BeRecruited Lightning vs CaptainU Lightning vs ConnectLAX Lightning vs MaxPreps Lightning vs RecruitSpot Lightning vs Hudl Fusion Lightning vs Twitter / X recruiting Lightning vs Rivals.com

6. State-by-state recruiting environments

How HSAA rules, transfer policies, and recruiting density differ across all 50 states.

All 50 states

Maryland California Texas Florida New York Pennsylvania New Jersey Ohio Georgia Illinois North Carolina Virginia Michigan Washington Arizona Delaware District of Columbia West Virginia Tennessee Indiana Colorado Minnesota Massachusetts Wisconsin Missouri Oregon South Carolina Alabama Iowa Kentucky Alaska Arkansas Connecticut Hawaii Idaho Kansas Louisiana Maine Mississippi Montana Nebraska Nevada New Hampshire New Mexico North Dakota Oklahoma Rhode Island South Dakota Utah Vermont Wyoming

7. When a recruiting service is worth it (and when DIY wins)

A decision framework. Most families do not need NCSA. Some do. Here is how to know.

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